Future self past me
If I could go back in time and talk to my younger self...I would look deeply into my sad eyes and explain that life will work itself out. I would tell my beautiful young self to breathe to lighten up to blame no one - I would explain that all of this anguish is so temporary and that life is grand. The larger picture is what she needs to imagine and all the problems of being young and raising babies will shift. Babies grow and young minds mature as well as bodies. All that troubled me has softened and my love has grown.
Everything will work it's self out so just enjoy!